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| | What is the biblical purpose of sex?
The biblical purpose of sex is
multifaceted. God has given sex to us as a means of glorifying Him
as we fulfill its design for
procreation, intimacy, comfort, and physical pleasure. It is a fulfillment
of God's created order in marriage between a husband and wife.
 | Procreation
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Gen. 1:28, "And God blessed
them; and God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the
earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the
birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the
earth.'" |
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| Intimacy
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Song 1:13, "My beloved is to me a pouch of
myrrh which lies all night between my breasts." |
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Song 2:3, "Like an apple tree among the
trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In
his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet
to my taste." |
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Song 2:6, "Let his left hand be under my
head and his right hand embrace me. |
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Song 4:5, "Your two breasts are like two
fawns, twins of a gazelle, which feed among the lilies." |
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| Companionship
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Song 3:1, On my bed night
after night I sought him whom my soul loves..." |
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| Physical Pleasure
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Song 1:2, "May he kiss me with the kisses
of his mouth! For your love is better than wine." |
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The sexual relation is
only properly expressed in marriage between a husband and wife (1 Corinthians 7:2-3).
Any sexual contact between unmarried people is sinful since it violates
God's design.
Sex is a
wonderful blessing given to us by the Lord that serves to express
intimacy to another. Some theologians believe that the sexual union is representative of the intimacy found in
the Trinity. This is not to say that the members of the Godhead,
the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, have sexual relations. That is
absurd. But there is an incredible intimacy and communion between
them. The three persons in the Godhead are, after all, one God.
This is why Jesus said that He and the Father were one (John 10:30).
Remember, God says when a man and woman get married, they become one
flesh (Gen. 2:24). This expression of physical union which has a
spiritual aspect to it ("the two become one flesh") and is why some
theologians see the sexual relation as a sacred experience.
We don't know if such speculations are accurate, but
sexuality is to remain pure nonetheless. This means that the
marriage bed must not violate the commandments of God in deed or thought
-- no adultery, no
pornography, no
voyeurism, no
bestiality,
incest, etc.
The sexual union is God ordained and God given and must be experienced
in a godly way within marriage. In this, the sexual union can
bring glory to God as it is experienced in fulfillment of God's design
and purpose to provide pleasure, companionship, intimacy, and a means of
fulfilling the command of God to fill the earth.
So the purpose of sex is to glorify God, bring forth
children, express intimacy, provide comfort, and bless the spouse.
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